Friday, January 14, 2011
In case you need me to tell you..
I have been inspired by Born This Way and this post at Nerdy Apple Blossom to write this post.
You are 3 and a half and I love you so much. You are kind, fair, affectionate and clever. You love your Jesse doll and sing to her all the time. You also love Barbie dolls, Yo Gabba Gabba and doing drawing. Your favorite food is avocado. You absolutely want nothing to do with stereotypical "girly" hair and clothes though you love to dance in ballet gear. You have also mentioned a quite a few times that when you grow up you are going to marry a woman.
Now I don't know if what you are saying now is the same as what you are going to do when you are older (at 3 Tannah wanted to be a stingray when she grew up)but, just in case you need me to tell you, it doesn't matter one little bit to me who you marry, or if you get married at all.
I hope that if you do marry a woman the laws will allow you to do so and that, should you so choose, being a mother will be accessible to you as well. But the sex of your partner is of no importance to me.
Your happiness is.
I just wanted to put it out there, just in case you ever need me to tell you, that I love YOU no matter your likes and dislikes, your sense of style or your sexual preference amongst other things. I never want you to feel judged or like you are disappointing me in any way. Be you and do what makes you happy. That is all I can ask for.